In life we have our family, friends, teachers, acquaintances, and just people we greet every day. But what about strangers? With so many people in our life, we forget about the people we do not know and choose to ignore them. Every place we go is filled with strangers and every stranger in those places, in most cases, remains a stranger. For example, when you go for an outing we walk pass by several people, we do not greet them or even look at them, and miss the opportunity to make a new friend. As children we taught “stranger danger”, but that phrase has extended to something as powerful enough to have fear in meeting new people. I personally believe that we should take every opportunity we can have to meet people, and not let the moment pass us by as we walk pass by strangers.
Being a shy person myself, it is always difficult for me make new friends. I expect people to come to me and for them to be the ones to initiate some kind of conversation. Sady, this expectation does not really work out in the real world. When I’m with new people I am always in the corner not even trying to make new friendships. After looking back through my days, I always regret not taking action and speaking to new people I have never met before. I do not want to ignore these people, but many factors pull me away. There is always a fear that people will not like me for who I am or that they simply will ignore me. In reality, we should not fear people. Through personal experience I have learned to let go of this fear and accept the fact that no one is out to get me.
Before last year, I had no best friend. I was placed in a class in which I knew absolutely nobody. Being who I am, I ignored everyone and just did my own thing. I was very lonely, so I figured it would be best to at least make one friend. As I was approaching this guy, I felt my heart dropping and my body shaking. I was about to turn away when suddenly he got up and approached me. At that moment I knew there was no turning back. I thought he was going to tell me off, but he actually came to me in a friendly matter and introduced himself. I made a new friend. I had someone to talk to and socialize in this class. Although I did not officially make a friend myself as he was the one approaching me, I learned something new. This situation taught me to not be afraid of talking to new people and that sometimes people actually want to get to know you.
There will always be new people in our lives, but when was the last we actually made an effort to make a new friend? Every time we see new people, there is an opportunity that awaits us to meet someone new. Perhaps meeting someone is too much, but at least giving friendly smiles or even a “bless you” to sneezing strangers can bring some type a friendship. Open up your friendship circles to anybody. A stranger can turn to a friend almost instantly if you stop ignoring them and try to be their friend.



